Until you’re completely candid accompanying yourself you inclination live in self-deceit and that is nowhere you want to be. There is a reason there is the saying: The truth discretion set you free! “Every lie has a consequence….you cannot escape that.”
I can’t tell you how many times I hear people saying things almost themselves or about their circumstances et al these statements are simply not true. Okay, so if you really believe it, is it a lie? Well, when mankind are brainwashed and join cults, they really believe the crap their fed, right? And it’s a lie!
So yes, just because you convinced yourself it’s the truth doesn’t mean it is the truth. You will understand a lot of these lies coming out of someone’s mouth when they necessitous to blame the other person for what happened to them. These types of people DO Refusal gate responsibility for their actions or their circumstances, it’s everlasting everybody’s fault but their own.
They aspire to blame everyone else and everything else just themselves because they can’t maneuver the truth active who they are or who they’ve become. They toot how unfair the other person is or how unfair vivaciousness has treated them. And guess what; until they can face reality it will never change because they always have an excuse to hide under!
Typically people who lie about things like this live in a dark place. Quantity are incapable of being honest about anything and if you are involved with or no somebody like this trying to get them to face the truth is almost impossible so don’t waste your time. Use your time to change the conditions you can instead.
The other way where I hear idiosyncrasy too many lies spewing from the undeserving is in the self-loathing department. There is a funny book out called, Self Loathing for Beginners. Lynn Phillips shows the absurdity from the things we say and do to ourselves through bringing humor to the insanity like it all.
I’m sure you hear it all the time and you may even be the one saying it. For instance have you ever heard yourself or anyone say:
* I’m too fat. (In the mean time you may be all of 20 pounds overweight!) It’s time to re-define the word, fat.
* I’m too old. How old are you? How old is too old and who told you that you’re too old? And you believe them?
* I can’t. If you affirm you can’t, you won’t. If you believe you can, you will.
* It’s also late. For what? Haven’t you heard, it’s never too late!
* I’ll never meet anyone. Why? Do you live in a cave? Are you a hermit? When you believe you will, you will!
* No one will ever love me. I love you! Your friends et alii family tree love you. And, when you learn to idolize yourself, so fancy others.
And lastly persons aren’t being honest with themselves about their ability to live the life they want. They tell themselves false stories as to why they will never have the love, rather money, or body, or new career, their soul-mate or much of their hearts desires to come to pass.
They begin to believe that it’s just the way it is and there is nothing they can do about it and I’m sorry to say, that is frankly a lie. Now, if you crave the truth you have to dig endemic inside moreover see who you actually are, a wonderful, divine life who has the Deity given power to do the thing you think you can’t.
The truth is that you can do whatever it is you want when you consider you can. The reality is you don’t deserve to believe these perjurious beliefs you’ve bot feeding yourself about who you are because you are so much more than you have given yourself credit to be. You are who you believe you are!
So today, be honest with yourself. You may not love where you are just now in life except that doesn’t mean that things can’t change. As you know, life is a journey and it’s all about enjoying the bestow you are right now along the path that will begin to shed light on your days instead of darkness.
Your future is yours to create, one filled with love, happiness, peace of intellectual or whatever you truly want. Connective that my friends, is the truth!